This might be true for older women, but as even Roosh said, the hot very young ones are as superficial as we are and looks are the main factorWomen's value to men is LARGELY based on their looks. Men's value to women is LESS based on their looks.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.