This might be true for older women, but as even Roosh said, the hot very young ones are as superficial as we are and looks are the main factor
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Guys lose their looks too
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I see lots of chumps that's good looking with hot women... Even they're chumps.. Lol
Had a bad tennis win this week. I very narrowly beat this guy in his 20s. At the end of the match he said do you ever beat anyone. I thought that was a bit disrespectful so I said nah just you. Afterwards I found he's a coderbeen between jobs for a long time.
He was a real fighter so I believe he d be a hard worker. I don't want to get into the racials but let's just say a certain demographic has stitched up IT market in Oz is handing the jobs out amongst themselves for backhanders. I've witnessed it firsthand in a couple of large shops. So poor guy is bucking a stacked deck.
No wonder he was pissed I felt bad. And gave him a few job hunting tips. Not the in your face you should do this mate but more hey this is some stuff that's worked for me in the past. Modern workplace is such a ****fight that there but for the grace of God...
He was a real fighter so I believe he d be a hard worker. I don't want to get into the racials but let's just say a certain demographic has stitched up IT market in Oz is handing the jobs out amongst themselves for backhanders. I've witnessed it firsthand in a couple of large shops. So poor guy is bucking a stacked deck.
No wonder he was pissed I felt bad. And gave him a few job hunting tips. Not the in your face you should do this mate but more hey this is some stuff that's worked for me in the past. Modern workplace is such a ****fight that there but for the grace of God...
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