This might be true for older women, but as even Roosh said, the hot very young ones are as superficial as we are and looks are the main factorWomen's value to men is LARGELY based on their looks. Men's value to women is LESS based on their looks.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.