Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wow, that's actually the best tutorial I've ever seen for dancing. I wish I've seen that when I first started going out.Docs said:http://www.sosuccessful.net/forum/showthread.php?t=109
It's bang on, it'll be exactly what you'll need
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=sLGLum5SyKQsandman6991 said:I learned soulja boy from some guys on the football team! Love it![]()
War Against Betaism said:Wow, that's actually the best tutorial I've ever seen for dancing. I wish I've seen that when I first started going out.
Here's an Advanced Advanced Technique for the clubs or dance scene.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=jn7jrVbgAVE
It's called rotations. I don't know how to explain it though, I've been practicing for 3 months and I still can't get it down.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Crazy Asian said:hey would it be a good idea to ask my female friend (who's on dance team) to teach me how to dance?
haha that guys like my idol now!emelec said:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olqywfWWUkw
besides all the retardness in the video he does give a good explanation and a visual near the end
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wabu07 said:i have a question though about grinding. when grinding and she pushinh your ass against your crotch do you push back? like when shes driving her ass back do drive your crotch forward or also drive it back
i remember my first time grinding my first homecoming, i was totally scared to get a date so my homie (who was a year more than me) and i went and got drunk and went there.Kev07 said:NO.
You are not HUMPING HER (unless you really know what you're doing, and from the looks of this you're still pretty new to dancing)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.