"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Guys I've got about three weeks before homecoming to learn how to dance

Brighty

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Any youtube videos or e-books to help out? How'd you guys learn?

and on the side, I want to learn the new soulja boy dance :crackup:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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War Against Betaism

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That's slick.

Looks like he's letting his hips/waist keep the beat, by forward/back, side-side or in a general circle.

The general circle works well with what he's doing with his knees, which looks to be that he's got his foot locked, and he's rotating himself on his knee, which is doing a mini-circle around the normal knee location.

Looks good :)
 

sandman6991

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I learned soulja boy from some guys on the football team! Love it :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i am me

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lol i laugh whenever i think about soulja boy....its a catchy song but outta all the artists on soundclick HES the one who got a deal hahah
 

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War Against Betaism said:
Wow, that's actually the best tutorial I've ever seen for dancing. I wish I've seen that when I first started going out.

Here's an Advanced Advanced Technique for the clubs or dance scene.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=jn7jrVbgAVE

It's called rotations. I don't know how to explain it though, I've been practicing for 3 months and I still can't get it down.

What are your knees doing?


I can't seem to get the 4th part, the lean to look good on the soulja boy dance :(
 

Crazy Asian

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hey would it be a good idea to ask my female friend (who's on dance team) to teach me how to dance?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i have a question though about grinding. when grinding and she pushinh your ass against your crotch do you push back? like when shes driving her ass back do drive your crotch forward or also drive it back
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kev07

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wabu07 said:
i have a question though about grinding. when grinding and she pushinh your ass against your crotch do you push back? like when shes driving her ass back do drive your crotch forward or also drive it back

NO.

You are not HUMPING HER (unless you really know what you're doing, and from the looks of this you're still pretty new to dancing)
 

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Hey guys, quick question. I go to a Catholic School, and we aren't allowed to grind, so what kind of dances should i do. I suck at dancing btw.
 

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Grind anyways, fvck what the school says.

My school doesn't allow grinding either, just move to the middle of the dancefloor and grind away, worse thing they can do is kick you out, then you can invite the girl to your place and "grind" there.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Kev07 said:
NO.

You are not HUMPING HER (unless you really know what you're doing, and from the looks of this you're still pretty new to dancing)
i remember my first time grinding my first homecoming, i was totally scared to get a date so my homie (who was a year more than me) and i went and got drunk and went there.

i was "grinding" by totally moving my ass back and forward with a senior. kinda like quagmire does when he says "giggity giggity!"
 

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ever hear of the term broken? im going to a club this thurs and these girls keep saying there going to break me :rolleyes: but maybe some tips on how to not be broken.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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