"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guys are the first cheaters, are they right?

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DJs,

I don't believe we DJ pick up just to get laid. My own intention for being part of the community is to master the art of persuasion. I just ended here, when I started NLP and other stuffs. My past relationships helped a bit.

I know physical appearance is what makes us guys desire a woman (don't get me wrong).

I had a discussion last night with a girl, she told me that guys are cheat first with some good arguments. Last night I watched a MTV video clip "Confession
Nocturne"... I must admit they are right.

But what about DJs ? Are we really cheating on them ? Even if we don't consider them (all) as GFs ?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
 
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mrRuckus said:
You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
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could be a haiku, count the syllables! :woo:



Every DJ has "their way". Some believe its ok to cheat, while others feel that a DJ should never cheat. both sides have valid arguments, so I suggest you read up on it and go with whatever you agree with
 
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mrRuckus: done!
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MTV shows i think are predominantly produced by and watched by women. Of course the men will look worse.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrRuckus,

I want your point too. Thanx The_Addman, you have a great signature. Permit me to drop it.

I won't cheat on a GF that doesn't like it.
 
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Uhh...you gave no examples bud. If you believe guys are always the first to cheat 100% of the time please throw yourself out your window. Then...stop watching MTV.
 
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I personally think that if its a casual relationship, then its ok to "cheat"

but if its a commited serious one, then its not ok
 
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think of it this way, you wouldn't want it done to you so, don't do it.
 
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It's fairly simple.

If you're exclusive with someone, you don't cheat. Otherwise why are you exclusive in the first place?

Well said white cloud.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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