"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Guys are the first cheaters, are they right?

nvictor

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DJs,

I don't believe we DJ pick up just to get laid. My own intention for being part of the community is to master the art of persuasion. I just ended here, when I started NLP and other stuffs. My past relationships helped a bit.

I know physical appearance is what makes us guys desire a woman (don't get me wrong).

I had a discussion last night with a girl, she told me that guys are cheat first with some good arguments. Last night I watched a MTV video clip "Confession
Nocturne"... I must admit they are right.

But what about DJs ? Are we really cheating on them ? Even if we don't consider them (all) as GFs ?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrRuckus

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You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
 

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mrRuckus said:
You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
could be a haiku, count the syllables! :woo:



Every DJ has "their way". Some believe its ok to cheat, while others feel that a DJ should never cheat. both sides have valid arguments, so I suggest you read up on it and go with whatever you agree with
 

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nvictor said:
mrRuckus: done!

Wow...


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MTV shows i think are predominantly produced by and watched by women. Of course the men will look worse.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mrRuckus,

I want your point too. Thanx The_Addman, you have a great signature. Permit me to drop it.

I won't cheat on a GF that doesn't like it.
 

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Uhh...you gave no examples bud. If you believe guys are always the first to cheat 100% of the time please throw yourself out your window. Then...stop watching MTV.
 

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I personally think that if its a casual relationship, then its ok to "cheat"

but if its a commited serious one, then its not ok
 

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think of it this way, you wouldn't want it done to you so, don't do it.
 

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It's fairly simple.

If you're exclusive with someone, you don't cheat. Otherwise why are you exclusive in the first place?

Well said white cloud.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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