"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJs,

I don't believe we DJ pick up just to get laid. My own intention for being part of the community is to master the art of persuasion. I just ended here, when I started NLP and other stuffs. My past relationships helped a bit.

I know physical appearance is what makes us guys desire a woman (don't get me wrong).

I had a discussion last night with a girl, she told me that guys are cheat first with some good arguments. Last night I watched a MTV video clip "Confession
Nocturne"... I must admit they are right.

But what about DJs ? Are we really cheating on them ? Even if we don't consider them (all) as GFs ?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
 
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mrRuckus said:
You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
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could be a haiku, count the syllables! :woo:



Every DJ has "their way". Some believe its ok to cheat, while others feel that a DJ should never cheat. both sides have valid arguments, so I suggest you read up on it and go with whatever you agree with
 
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mrRuckus: done!
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MTV shows i think are predominantly produced by and watched by women. Of course the men will look worse.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrRuckus,

I want your point too. Thanx The_Addman, you have a great signature. Permit me to drop it.

I won't cheat on a GF that doesn't like it.
 
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Uhh...you gave no examples bud. If you believe guys are always the first to cheat 100% of the time please throw yourself out your window. Then...stop watching MTV.
 
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I personally think that if its a casual relationship, then its ok to "cheat"

but if its a commited serious one, then its not ok
 
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think of it this way, you wouldn't want it done to you so, don't do it.
 
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It's fairly simple.

If you're exclusive with someone, you don't cheat. Otherwise why are you exclusive in the first place?

Well said white cloud.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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