“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Guys are the first cheaters, are they right?

nvictor

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DJs,

I don't believe we DJ pick up just to get laid. My own intention for being part of the community is to master the art of persuasion. I just ended here, when I started NLP and other stuffs. My past relationships helped a bit.

I know physical appearance is what makes us guys desire a woman (don't get me wrong).

I had a discussion last night with a girl, she told me that guys are cheat first with some good arguments. Last night I watched a MTV video clip "Confession
Nocturne"... I must admit they are right.

But what about DJs ? Are we really cheating on them ? Even if we don't consider them (all) as GFs ?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
 

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mrRuckus said:
You could persuade me better by not making your post look like a poem or something.
could be a haiku, count the syllables! :woo:



Every DJ has "their way". Some believe its ok to cheat, while others feel that a DJ should never cheat. both sides have valid arguments, so I suggest you read up on it and go with whatever you agree with
 

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nvictor said:
mrRuckus: done!

Wow...


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MTV shows i think are predominantly produced by and watched by women. Of course the men will look worse.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrRuckus,

I want your point too. Thanx The_Addman, you have a great signature. Permit me to drop it.

I won't cheat on a GF that doesn't like it.
 

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Uhh...you gave no examples bud. If you believe guys are always the first to cheat 100% of the time please throw yourself out your window. Then...stop watching MTV.
 

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I personally think that if its a casual relationship, then its ok to "cheat"

but if its a commited serious one, then its not ok
 

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think of it this way, you wouldn't want it done to you so, don't do it.
 

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It's fairly simple.

If you're exclusive with someone, you don't cheat. Otherwise why are you exclusive in the first place?

Well said white cloud.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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