"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guy in my weightlifting class...

Jhcl4000

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There is this guy in my weightlifting class, it actually seems like he's trying to be a PUA/DJ or something, he always has this ****y look on his face, wears a tank-top to the class like he's trying to show himself off, but he's not in the best shape and doesn't have muscular arms, and it just seems like he's really trying to be cool. The second day of class he introduced himself to 2/3 girls in the class, but none of the guys. I, on the other hand, tried to talk to/meet some of the guys to build a bit of status. Third day of class I hopped on to an elliptical next to one of the HB's, and got a conversation going with her as we "warmed up." It went smoothly and lasted around 5 minutes before I got off to go workout (which she seemed to mirror and also got off right as I did). The last couple of classes I've just teased her lightly, thinking about asking her out at some point.... When it isn't going to snow 6 feet over the weekend. Anyways, back to this guy... I was on the treadmill next to him and another guy, so I made a joke about how I was the only one not running, blah blah, and the guy told me that he was hungover... But it was a Tuesday, who the fvck gets drunk on a Monday night? Just giving you a better picture of what he's like. Okay, today I'm talking to the HB during class, and she says something about doing kickboxing. We're talking about that a little bit and the guy, who wasn't in our conversation, says: "I do kickboxing!" Or some sh!t, I guess he was trying to hijack the conversation or something. After he said that I paused for a second, but was surprised when the HB just ignored him, and so did I:crackup:. At the end of class I see them talking, and as the class is walking out he walks past her and say: "I'll hit you up."

I don't know what it is, but there's something about this guy that rubs me the wrong way. I'm also getting the feeling that he doesn't like me for some reason.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds like you got a little crush on this guy. You're more into him than the girls...
 

Ice882

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WhitePimp said:
Sounds like you got a little crush on this guy. You're more into him than the girls...
Doesn't sound like that at all.


The dudes a fag. (not in the gay sense).
 

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Ice882 said:
Doesn't sound like that at all.


The dudes a fag. (not in the gay sense).

Your still on about him? :nono:

they got a word for u it's called "Hater" and they never excel at anything cause they pre-occupy themselves with the next man's business
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhitePimp said:
Sounds like you got a little crush on this guy. You're more into him than the girls...
LOL

Yeah I thought your story would lead somewhere but it didn't, it sounded more like a story chicks tells one another: "Oh look at that girl she thinks she is so hot but she is not haha but like whatever she's such a loser and nobody likes her anywayz blah blah blah"

Do you have a point to the story?! sounds like the other guy is trying but is failing and you are giddy about that for some reason.
 

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DJDamage said:
LOL

Yeah I thought your story would lead somewhere but it didn't, it sounded more like a story chicks tells one another: "Oh look at that girl she thinks she is so hot but she is not haha but like whatever she's such a loser and nobody likes her anywayz blah blah blah"

Do you have a point to the story?! sounds like the other guy is trying but is failing and you are giddy about that for some reason.
if we were playing battleships this guy woulda just sunk your ship:kick:
 

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Pretty much the answers I expected.

Thanks. And no, I'm not kidding, I actually mean thanks. I knew I was getting insecure again and need to stop that sh!t.
 
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