Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Guy in my weightlifting class...

Jhcl4000

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There is this guy in my weightlifting class, it actually seems like he's trying to be a PUA/DJ or something, he always has this ****y look on his face, wears a tank-top to the class like he's trying to show himself off, but he's not in the best shape and doesn't have muscular arms, and it just seems like he's really trying to be cool. The second day of class he introduced himself to 2/3 girls in the class, but none of the guys. I, on the other hand, tried to talk to/meet some of the guys to build a bit of status. Third day of class I hopped on to an elliptical next to one of the HB's, and got a conversation going with her as we "warmed up." It went smoothly and lasted around 5 minutes before I got off to go workout (which she seemed to mirror and also got off right as I did). The last couple of classes I've just teased her lightly, thinking about asking her out at some point.... When it isn't going to snow 6 feet over the weekend. Anyways, back to this guy... I was on the treadmill next to him and another guy, so I made a joke about how I was the only one not running, blah blah, and the guy told me that he was hungover... But it was a Tuesday, who the fvck gets drunk on a Monday night? Just giving you a better picture of what he's like. Okay, today I'm talking to the HB during class, and she says something about doing kickboxing. We're talking about that a little bit and the guy, who wasn't in our conversation, says: "I do kickboxing!" Or some sh!t, I guess he was trying to hijack the conversation or something. After he said that I paused for a second, but was surprised when the HB just ignored him, and so did I:crackup:. At the end of class I see them talking, and as the class is walking out he walks past her and say: "I'll hit you up."

I don't know what it is, but there's something about this guy that rubs me the wrong way. I'm also getting the feeling that he doesn't like me for some reason.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sounds like you got a little crush on this guy. You're more into him than the girls...
 

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WhitePimp said:
Sounds like you got a little crush on this guy. You're more into him than the girls...
Doesn't sound like that at all.


The dudes a fag. (not in the gay sense).
 

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Ice882 said:
Doesn't sound like that at all.


The dudes a fag. (not in the gay sense).

Your still on about him? :nono:

they got a word for u it's called "Hater" and they never excel at anything cause they pre-occupy themselves with the next man's business
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WhitePimp said:
Sounds like you got a little crush on this guy. You're more into him than the girls...
LOL

Yeah I thought your story would lead somewhere but it didn't, it sounded more like a story chicks tells one another: "Oh look at that girl she thinks she is so hot but she is not haha but like whatever she's such a loser and nobody likes her anywayz blah blah blah"

Do you have a point to the story?! sounds like the other guy is trying but is failing and you are giddy about that for some reason.
 

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DJDamage said:
LOL

Yeah I thought your story would lead somewhere but it didn't, it sounded more like a story chicks tells one another: "Oh look at that girl she thinks she is so hot but she is not haha but like whatever she's such a loser and nobody likes her anywayz blah blah blah"

Do you have a point to the story?! sounds like the other guy is trying but is failing and you are giddy about that for some reason.
if we were playing battleships this guy woulda just sunk your ship:kick:
 

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Pretty much the answers I expected.

Thanks. And no, I'm not kidding, I actually mean thanks. I knew I was getting insecure again and need to stop that sh!t.
 
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