"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gunwitch and other "sexy" theories

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OK, I wanted to ask about Gunwitch and that kind of thing. Yeah, I know there's a lot of threads out there, but they rarely actually discuss it and just kind of circle around.

What is this "sexual state" that they are talking about? One site I saw said to try and get the feeling that you felt one time when you were about to have sex. How? By visualizing how it felt, what you did?

I'm curious because the other day I was at work and every time I dealt with an attractive girl I was thinking about what it would be like to screw her just before talking to them. It did seem to have some kind of an effect. I was more flirty.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That is sexual state in a nutshell. Being in the sexual mindset allows your behaviour to be more sexually oriented.
 
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You know I dont know anything about the Gunwitch method. My main focus has been on deAngelo's material.
For those who have done the Gunwitch thing how does it compare to others like deAngelo, Carlos Xuma, Lance Mason etc????
 
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OK... so is this sexual state something you only use in a pick-up situation? Can I use it at work when I'm just generally flirting with customers, or is it going to seem too strong?
 
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Naw, what harm is there is thinking of them naked while talking to them. Just remember to not say anything that could get you fired ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sexual state works, but it is building the foundation of the relationship based largely on infatuation. It does work to get laid... it's quite easy actually with the right girl. If you're in a club, it's just all about how you look at her, touch her, etc.
 
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Not many people around here seem to have used this technique. It defitely seems completely different to the other more popular methods. I used it only once, I casually tried it as an experiment while I was talking to a woman working in a store. It was like after a minute or so, the woman suddenly seemed to notice something interesting about me. I didn't close, but I am curious as to what she was thinking?

Anyone else tried out GWM?
 
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