"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gunwitch and other "sexy" theories

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OK, I wanted to ask about Gunwitch and that kind of thing. Yeah, I know there's a lot of threads out there, but they rarely actually discuss it and just kind of circle around.

What is this "sexual state" that they are talking about? One site I saw said to try and get the feeling that you felt one time when you were about to have sex. How? By visualizing how it felt, what you did?

I'm curious because the other day I was at work and every time I dealt with an attractive girl I was thinking about what it would be like to screw her just before talking to them. It did seem to have some kind of an effect. I was more flirty.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That is sexual state in a nutshell. Being in the sexual mindset allows your behaviour to be more sexually oriented.
 
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You know I dont know anything about the Gunwitch method. My main focus has been on deAngelo's material.
For those who have done the Gunwitch thing how does it compare to others like deAngelo, Carlos Xuma, Lance Mason etc????
 
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OK... so is this sexual state something you only use in a pick-up situation? Can I use it at work when I'm just generally flirting with customers, or is it going to seem too strong?
 
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Naw, what harm is there is thinking of them naked while talking to them. Just remember to not say anything that could get you fired ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sexual state works, but it is building the foundation of the relationship based largely on infatuation. It does work to get laid... it's quite easy actually with the right girl. If you're in a club, it's just all about how you look at her, touch her, etc.
 
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Not many people around here seem to have used this technique. It defitely seems completely different to the other more popular methods. I used it only once, I casually tried it as an experiment while I was talking to a woman working in a store. It was like after a minute or so, the woman suddenly seemed to notice something interesting about me. I didn't close, but I am curious as to what she was thinking?

Anyone else tried out GWM?
 
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