"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gunwitch and other "sexy" theories

realsmoothie

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OK, I wanted to ask about Gunwitch and that kind of thing. Yeah, I know there's a lot of threads out there, but they rarely actually discuss it and just kind of circle around.

What is this "sexual state" that they are talking about? One site I saw said to try and get the feeling that you felt one time when you were about to have sex. How? By visualizing how it felt, what you did?

I'm curious because the other day I was at work and every time I dealt with an attractive girl I was thinking about what it would be like to screw her just before talking to them. It did seem to have some kind of an effect. I was more flirty.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That is sexual state in a nutshell. Being in the sexual mindset allows your behaviour to be more sexually oriented.
 

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You know I dont know anything about the Gunwitch method. My main focus has been on deAngelo's material.
For those who have done the Gunwitch thing how does it compare to others like deAngelo, Carlos Xuma, Lance Mason etc????
 

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OK... so is this sexual state something you only use in a pick-up situation? Can I use it at work when I'm just generally flirting with customers, or is it going to seem too strong?
 

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Naw, what harm is there is thinking of them naked while talking to them. Just remember to not say anything that could get you fired ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sexual state works, but it is building the foundation of the relationship based largely on infatuation. It does work to get laid... it's quite easy actually with the right girl. If you're in a club, it's just all about how you look at her, touch her, etc.
 

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Not many people around here seem to have used this technique. It defitely seems completely different to the other more popular methods. I used it only once, I casually tried it as an experiment while I was talking to a woman working in a store. It was like after a minute or so, the woman suddenly seemed to notice something interesting about me. I didn't close, but I am curious as to what she was thinking?

Anyone else tried out GWM?
 
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