"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gunwitch and other "sexy" theories

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OK, I wanted to ask about Gunwitch and that kind of thing. Yeah, I know there's a lot of threads out there, but they rarely actually discuss it and just kind of circle around.

What is this "sexual state" that they are talking about? One site I saw said to try and get the feeling that you felt one time when you were about to have sex. How? By visualizing how it felt, what you did?

I'm curious because the other day I was at work and every time I dealt with an attractive girl I was thinking about what it would be like to screw her just before talking to them. It did seem to have some kind of an effect. I was more flirty.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That is sexual state in a nutshell. Being in the sexual mindset allows your behaviour to be more sexually oriented.
 
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You know I dont know anything about the Gunwitch method. My main focus has been on deAngelo's material.
For those who have done the Gunwitch thing how does it compare to others like deAngelo, Carlos Xuma, Lance Mason etc????
 
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OK... so is this sexual state something you only use in a pick-up situation? Can I use it at work when I'm just generally flirting with customers, or is it going to seem too strong?
 
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Naw, what harm is there is thinking of them naked while talking to them. Just remember to not say anything that could get you fired ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sexual state works, but it is building the foundation of the relationship based largely on infatuation. It does work to get laid... it's quite easy actually with the right girl. If you're in a club, it's just all about how you look at her, touch her, etc.
 
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Not many people around here seem to have used this technique. It defitely seems completely different to the other more popular methods. I used it only once, I casually tried it as an experiment while I was talking to a woman working in a store. It was like after a minute or so, the woman suddenly seemed to notice something interesting about me. I didn't close, but I am curious as to what she was thinking?

Anyone else tried out GWM?
 
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