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excuse me , who?alphamailman said:Yep, sorry Goundra, hate to break it to you...but you are OUT! :moon:
and out ... of what?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
excuse me , who?alphamailman said:Yep, sorry Goundra, hate to break it to you...but you are OUT! :moon:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
thank you danger. that was exactly what i was talking about. i also thought that was a very well pointed link.Danger said:It seems someone is finally looking at the causes of these incidents.....
And strangely enough, he found some more very strong links of these mass shootings to medications.
http://www.wnd.com/2013/01/the-giant-gaping-hole-in-sandy-hook-reporting/
Thats a very interesting article, is that site politically biased? I would like to forward that link to a friend with which I recently talked about guns but she is arab....so some nationalist site wouldnt exactly be the best thing.Danger said:It seems someone is finally looking at the causes of these incidents.....
And strangely enough, he found some more very strong links of these mass shootings to medications.
http://www.wnd.com/2013/01/the-giant-gaping-hole-in-sandy-hook-reporting/
Misguided Bible Belt.Bible_Belt said:The article said that the guy she shot is on the verge of death. I hope he doesn't die, even if it is only for the sake of her conscious. His crime is burglary, and there is no legal justification for killing someone to defend property. The idea might be popular, but that doesn't make it legal.
No one has the legal right to shoot somebody just because that person is in their house. The "castle doctrine" is part of self-defense law, and it always requires a reasonable belief of impending harm. An intruder simply being there is not enough. He would have had to threaten her with the crowbar, too, before she shot him. I don't know if that happened, but despite what everybody seems to think, even if he's in your house you can't sneak up on a burglar and blow him away before he knows what is going on. That's murder.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt said:
The circumstances under which you can get completely away with killing someone are much more limited than most people realize.
surprise surprisePoonani Maker said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don't mistake correlation with causality.Danger said:It seems someone is finally looking at the causes of these incidents.....
And strangely enough, he found some more very strong links of these mass shootings to medications.
http://www.wnd.com/2013/01/the-giant-gaping-hole-in-sandy-hook-reporting/
Oh really? If you shoot someone who has forcibly broken into your residence, which is a class A felony?goundra said:Bad idea to think that drawing means firing. normally, it does NOT. when they see the gun, they STOP. if you hit someone with a bullet, figure on spending $50,000 to stay out of jail, pay bondsman's fees, lost work, having to relocate, having wife and kids harassed, possible divorce, being sued for everything you own, etc.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You have apparently forgotten the original post that started this thread.Alle_Gory said:Regular people aren't used to killing to defend themselves.
There's group, can't remember what they call themselves, but they don't believe in car tags, etc, and if a police pulls them over they shoot em. It could get Really bad here in America if they try to "CONfiscate" door-to-door, guns. There's already elements growing. It could get, and they are just making it/pushing it, worse.Bible_Belt said:If you ever watch the US presidential elections, you know the 'red state/blue state' divide. The blue is the more urban area and the red is larger in geography, but more rural. It is a cultural divide, more so than political, going back as far as the Civil War. The blue states might be open to gun control, which is common in big cities, but the predominant attitude where I live is like the bumper sticker - they can have my gun when they pry it from my cold dead fingers. If the law changes too drastically, everybody will ignore it, not just criminals.
There's another variable that is confusing the issue. Before, there were less mass shootings, less of these drugsPairPlusRoyalFlush said:These mass shootings were a lot rarer in the past even though guns were more accessible.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.