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excuse me , who?alphamailman said:Yep, sorry Goundra, hate to break it to you...but you are OUT! :moon:
and out ... of what?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
excuse me , who?alphamailman said:Yep, sorry Goundra, hate to break it to you...but you are OUT! :moon:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thank you danger. that was exactly what i was talking about. i also thought that was a very well pointed link.Danger said:It seems someone is finally looking at the causes of these incidents.....
And strangely enough, he found some more very strong links of these mass shootings to medications.
http://www.wnd.com/2013/01/the-giant-gaping-hole-in-sandy-hook-reporting/
Thats a very interesting article, is that site politically biased? I would like to forward that link to a friend with which I recently talked about guns but she is arab....so some nationalist site wouldnt exactly be the best thing.Danger said:It seems someone is finally looking at the causes of these incidents.....
And strangely enough, he found some more very strong links of these mass shootings to medications.
http://www.wnd.com/2013/01/the-giant-gaping-hole-in-sandy-hook-reporting/
Misguided Bible Belt.Bible_Belt said:The article said that the guy she shot is on the verge of death. I hope he doesn't die, even if it is only for the sake of her conscious. His crime is burglary, and there is no legal justification for killing someone to defend property. The idea might be popular, but that doesn't make it legal.
No one has the legal right to shoot somebody just because that person is in their house. The "castle doctrine" is part of self-defense law, and it always requires a reasonable belief of impending harm. An intruder simply being there is not enough. He would have had to threaten her with the crowbar, too, before she shot him. I don't know if that happened, but despite what everybody seems to think, even if he's in your house you can't sneak up on a burglar and blow him away before he knows what is going on. That's murder.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Bible_Belt said:
The circumstances under which you can get completely away with killing someone are much more limited than most people realize.
surprise surprisePoonani Maker said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don't mistake correlation with causality.Danger said:It seems someone is finally looking at the causes of these incidents.....
And strangely enough, he found some more very strong links of these mass shootings to medications.
http://www.wnd.com/2013/01/the-giant-gaping-hole-in-sandy-hook-reporting/
Oh really? If you shoot someone who has forcibly broken into your residence, which is a class A felony?goundra said:Bad idea to think that drawing means firing. normally, it does NOT. when they see the gun, they STOP. if you hit someone with a bullet, figure on spending $50,000 to stay out of jail, pay bondsman's fees, lost work, having to relocate, having wife and kids harassed, possible divorce, being sued for everything you own, etc.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You have apparently forgotten the original post that started this thread.Alle_Gory said:Regular people aren't used to killing to defend themselves.
There's group, can't remember what they call themselves, but they don't believe in car tags, etc, and if a police pulls them over they shoot em. It could get Really bad here in America if they try to "CONfiscate" door-to-door, guns. There's already elements growing. It could get, and they are just making it/pushing it, worse.Bible_Belt said:If you ever watch the US presidential elections, you know the 'red state/blue state' divide. The blue is the more urban area and the red is larger in geography, but more rural. It is a cultural divide, more so than political, going back as far as the Civil War. The blue states might be open to gun control, which is common in big cities, but the predominant attitude where I live is like the bumper sticker - they can have my gun when they pry it from my cold dead fingers. If the law changes too drastically, everybody will ignore it, not just criminals.
There's another variable that is confusing the issue. Before, there were less mass shootings, less of these drugsPairPlusRoyalFlush said:These mass shootings were a lot rarer in the past even though guns were more accessible.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.