"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guide to picking up women on Linkedin

Sebastian0001

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Is there any guide on Sosuave on how to pick up women on Linkedin? Or an article or something?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have never seen such a guide. Given the professional culture of Linkedin I think running game on there would be pretty difficult. But I suppose if I were to try, I would do it just like any other online method. Start with a PM to a woman that is light and funny and see if she bites.
 

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I see a lot of posts on linkedin shaming men for obtuse approaches.

IMO, Linkedin is a professional network and should be treated as such.
 

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Yeah steer clear of gaming on LinkedIn if you have any sort of decent profession you value. It's not facebook.
 

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lolwut
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Multiple female friends have told me that they get hit on all the time on LinkedIn. One of them did agree to go out with the guy.
 

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"Hey girl, I saw you have a degree in Business and Accounting. Perhaps we could go back to my place and do some business on account of my horniness?"

But seriously, LinkedIn seems like the absolute worst place to hit on chicks. Firstly it's a sterile professional environment, so interest is going to be low. People just want to network for their jobs. Most of my contacts aren't even anywhere near me geographically either.

Secondly, you make a wrong move and you're going to end up getting a rep as a sleazeball who doesn't have the restraint to have a purely business relationship with a woman. You might even get accused of sexual harassment. Not sensible.
 

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"Hey girl, I saw you have a degree in Business and Accounting. Perhaps we could go back to my place and do some business on account of my horniness?"

But seriously, LinkedIn seems like the absolute worst place to hit on chicks. Firstly it's a sterile professional environment, so interest is going to be low. People just want to network for their jobs. Most of my contacts aren't even anywhere near me geographically either.

Secondly, you make a wrong move and you're going to end up getting a rep as a sleazeball who doesn't have the restraint to have a purely business relationship with a woman. You might even get accused of sexual harassment. Not sensible.
I just snort laughed at the first paragraph. Funny stuff
 
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