Sebastian0001
Senior Don Juan
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Is there any guide on Sosuave on how to pick up women on Linkedin? Or an article or something?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I just snort laughed at the first paragraph. Funny stuff"Hey girl, I saw you have a degree in Business and Accounting. Perhaps we could go back to my place and do some business on account of my horniness?"
But seriously, LinkedIn seems like the absolute worst place to hit on chicks. Firstly it's a sterile professional environment, so interest is going to be low. People just want to network for their jobs. Most of my contacts aren't even anywhere near me geographically either.
Secondly, you make a wrong move and you're going to end up getting a rep as a sleazeball who doesn't have the restraint to have a purely business relationship with a woman. You might even get accused of sexual harassment. Not sensible.