Sebastian0001
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Is there any guide on Sosuave on how to pick up women on Linkedin? Or an article or something?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Guide to picking up women on Linkedin
- Thread starter Sebastian0001
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
logicallefty
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I have never seen such a guide. Given the professional culture of Linkedin I think running game on there would be pretty difficult. But I suppose if I were to try, I would do it just like any other online method. Start with a PM to a woman that is light and funny and see if she bites.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MoreThanSmooth
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"Hey girl, I saw you have a degree in Business and Accounting. Perhaps we could go back to my place and do some business on account of my horniness?"
But seriously, LinkedIn seems like the absolute worst place to hit on chicks. Firstly it's a sterile professional environment, so interest is going to be low. People just want to network for their jobs. Most of my contacts aren't even anywhere near me geographically either.
Secondly, you make a wrong move and you're going to end up getting a rep as a sleazeball who doesn't have the restraint to have a purely business relationship with a woman. You might even get accused of sexual harassment. Not sensible.
But seriously, LinkedIn seems like the absolute worst place to hit on chicks. Firstly it's a sterile professional environment, so interest is going to be low. People just want to network for their jobs. Most of my contacts aren't even anywhere near me geographically either.
Secondly, you make a wrong move and you're going to end up getting a rep as a sleazeball who doesn't have the restraint to have a purely business relationship with a woman. You might even get accused of sexual harassment. Not sensible.
Glassguy
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I just snort laughed at the first paragraph. Funny stuff