"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Groin pain after workout

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Sometimes after workouts i have noticed that the very lowest part of my abs (pretty much around and above my d*ck) has a sudden surge of pain going through it when i try to stretch my abs(ie lean backwards). It is extremely uncomfortable and i cant figure out an explanation for it. Have you guys experienced anything similar?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cry For Love said:
Sometimes after workouts i have noticed that the very lowest part of my abs (pretty much around and above my d*ck) has a sudden surge of pain going through it when i try to stretch my abs(ie lean backwards). It is extremely uncomfortable and i cant figure out an explanation for it. Have you guys experienced anything similar?
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did you stretch/warm up before your workout?
 
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hard to say for sure but sounds like a cramp. try moving more slowly and gently when you hyperextend your back (maybe try it laying on your stomach, so that gravity slows you down, rather than standing up & bending backwards).
 
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Check to see if you have a small lump developing. I had the same type of pain and it ended up being a hernia.
 
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ouch, yeah, didn't even occur to me. that's definitely a doctor's diagnosis, ultimately, and if you even suspect it, don't wait, and surely don't put any stress on it until you can see a doc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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