"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Groin pain after workout

Cry For Love

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Sometimes after workouts i have noticed that the very lowest part of my abs (pretty much around and above my d*ck) has a sudden surge of pain going through it when i try to stretch my abs(ie lean backwards). It is extremely uncomfortable and i cant figure out an explanation for it. Have you guys experienced anything similar?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Triple T

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Cry For Love said:
Sometimes after workouts i have noticed that the very lowest part of my abs (pretty much around and above my d*ck) has a sudden surge of pain going through it when i try to stretch my abs(ie lean backwards). It is extremely uncomfortable and i cant figure out an explanation for it. Have you guys experienced anything similar?
did you stretch/warm up before your workout?
 

Throttle

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hard to say for sure but sounds like a cramp. try moving more slowly and gently when you hyperextend your back (maybe try it laying on your stomach, so that gravity slows you down, rather than standing up & bending backwards).
 

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Check to see if you have a small lump developing. I had the same type of pain and it ended up being a hernia.
 

Throttle

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ouch, yeah, didn't even occur to me. that's definitely a doctor's diagnosis, ultimately, and if you even suspect it, don't wait, and surely don't put any stress on it until you can see a doc.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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