"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thought maybe the "Gripped by..." has still got something left to it.
So here it goes- a journal for improvement in all aspects of my life.

I will make a check in post every day on the following:

Monkey Spankin: I will say yes or no.
Cardio Exercise: Again yay or nay
Weights: Still Boolean
MJ: Did I get high?
Eating: Healthy?
Work: Degree of academic effort.
Smooth Operations: How many girls did I work the old magic on?
SO (no homo): How many and which dudes did I bantz with?
Growth: Have I grown today?
Worth it: If I looked to this day on my deathbed, would I consider it a waste?

The criteria should stay constant unless I've missed anything key

On Sunday I'll summarize.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Week: 1 Day: Monday

Monkey Spankin: Negative
Cardio: Nay
Weights: Nope
MJ: No
Eating: Average
Work: Poor effort
Smooth Operations: Absent
SO (no homo): The usual crowd
Growth: marginal
Worth it: Could be

Notable event: Journal Started
 
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These daily checks can be helpful. It also suggests you don't really know what you're working on specifically (other than exercise). Are you going to try to cold approach? How will you see your own growth? What milestones will you achieve?
 
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LearningSlowly said:
These daily checks can be helpful. It also suggests you don't really know what you're working on specifically (other than exercise). Are you going to try to cold approach? How will you see your own growth? What milestones will you achieve?
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Yeah I you are right; I will set some more specific goals
First specific goal- Set specific goals
 
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Week: 1 Day: Tuesday
Monkey Spankin: Negative
Cardio: Nay
Weights: Nope
MJ: No
Eating: Average
Work: Satisfied
Smooth Operations: Absent
SO (no homo): Expanded a little
Growth: *Yeaah
Worth it: Yes

Notable event: I gained a very cool friend
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Week: 1 Day: Wednesday

Monkey Spankin: Negative
Cardio: Indeedy
Weights: Nope
MJ: No
Eating: Average
Work: Okay
Smooth Operations: Absent
SO (no homo): Engaged in public speaking
Growth: yep
Worth it: Yeah
 
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I think this is a good idea, but we will never be able to help you because we don't know anything your up to.

And what's monkey spanking?
 
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I think this is a good idea, but we will never be able to help you because we don't know anything your up to.

And what's monkey spanking?
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Its wanking
Ah I see. What sort of things do you think I should disclose?
 
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Week: 1 Day: Thursday

Monkey Spankin: I did.
Cardio: Nay
Weights: Nope
MJ: No
Eating: Average
Work: Poor effort
Smooth Operations: Not happening
SO (no homo): The usual crowd
Growth: Nope
Worth it: Noooo
 
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Week: 1 Day: Friday

Monkey Spankin: I did. Despising myself at the moment.
Cardio: Nay
Weights: Nope
MJ: No
Eating: Average
Work: Awful
Smooth Operations: Zip (as you septics say)
SO (no homo): The usual crowd
Growth: Nope
Worth it: Noooo

Notable event: Called some womans hot daughter a sexual predator as part of a poorly received joke (it wasn't very funny either). Feeling an *sshole after that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Week: 1 Day: Saturday

Monkey Spankin: I didn't
Cardio: Nay
Weights: Nope
MJ: Yep
Eating: bad
Work: decent
Smooth Operations: none
SO (no homo): Hung out with some new people
Growth: Nope
Worth it: I'll say yeah

Notable event: got ripped into by a comedian at a comedy club.
 
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This is an epic fail of a journal. It's systematically flawed with from the beginning; it does not encourage me to grow. Without setting of concrete goals it constitutes a **** up on my part. I am going to start a new one now; a personal one with accounts from most days. I will delete this if I can.
 
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What I said from the beginning. Stop being lazy and start a real journal so we can actually help you.

Also, your journal shouldn't really be "main" motivation. I don't even really think of my journal while busy, out, gaming, school, gym etc. But if I have a series of events or noteworthy news/ comment, I make a journal entry.

It's much better.

PS: Why are there no chicks in this journal? What's up?
 
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