"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gril annoys the crap out of me

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Ok long story short , a girl i met at a club , got to where she didn't answer my messages , or seem interested in me at all . I proceed to ignore her over a week or two , then the other night when im at the club , shes there , and every time she passed me she would look my way and smile or wave or something , and one pass by she gave me a little jab in the rips with her fist as i passed her , and I poked her back and moved on . I payed her very little attention still .

The kicker is she still doesn't reply to my texts , I mean does she feel obligated to acknolwege me when she sees me ,even tho shes not interested ?

or is she just a crazy B!t#h like i think she is

"ugh typo in title ....."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.

Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
 

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.
 

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Iceberg said:
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.

Its how I am with everything , feel like im getting worse with the more crap I learn
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
Just treat her as an old school mate from high school you see once in a while cause you live close, there's not so much to think about it.
 
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