"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok long story short , a girl i met at a club , got to where she didn't answer my messages , or seem interested in me at all . I proceed to ignore her over a week or two , then the other night when im at the club , shes there , and every time she passed me she would look my way and smile or wave or something , and one pass by she gave me a little jab in the rips with her fist as i passed her , and I poked her back and moved on . I payed her very little attention still .

The kicker is she still doesn't reply to my texts , I mean does she feel obligated to acknolwege me when she sees me ,even tho shes not interested ?

or is she just a crazy B!t#h like i think she is

"ugh typo in title ....."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.

Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
 

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.
 

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Iceberg said:
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.

Its how I am with everything , feel like im getting worse with the more crap I learn
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
Just treat her as an old school mate from high school you see once in a while cause you live close, there's not so much to think about it.
 
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