"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok long story short , a girl i met at a club , got to where she didn't answer my messages , or seem interested in me at all . I proceed to ignore her over a week or two , then the other night when im at the club , shes there , and every time she passed me she would look my way and smile or wave or something , and one pass by she gave me a little jab in the rips with her fist as i passed her , and I poked her back and moved on . I payed her very little attention still .

The kicker is she still doesn't reply to my texts , I mean does she feel obligated to acknolwege me when she sees me ,even tho shes not interested ?

or is she just a crazy B!t#h like i think she is

"ugh typo in title ....."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.

Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
 

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.
 

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Iceberg said:
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.

Its how I am with everything , feel like im getting worse with the more crap I learn
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
Just treat her as an old school mate from high school you see once in a while cause you live close, there's not so much to think about it.
 
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