“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok long story short , a girl i met at a club , got to where she didn't answer my messages , or seem interested in me at all . I proceed to ignore her over a week or two , then the other night when im at the club , shes there , and every time she passed me she would look my way and smile or wave or something , and one pass by she gave me a little jab in the rips with her fist as i passed her , and I poked her back and moved on . I payed her very little attention still .

The kicker is she still doesn't reply to my texts , I mean does she feel obligated to acknolwege me when she sees me ,even tho shes not interested ?

or is she just a crazy B!t#h like i think she is

"ugh typo in title ....."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
She doesnt reply your text cause she is not interested n you.

She act friendly toward you when you meet to keep the environment light and calm, be friendly to her as well without giving her any non necessary attention.
After few weeks you can try to have small talk before LEAVING the interaction till you move from aquaitance to semi-friends, in that case you could have the chance to meet her friends or use her as a social proof while other girls look at you.

No mistery, getting ignored from a girl is annoying but it happened to everybody.

Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
 

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.
 

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Iceberg said:
You're thinking about this way, way, waaaaay too much.

Look at her. Don't look at her. It doesn't matter. Loosen up...this isn't how social people think.

Its how I am with everything , feel like im getting worse with the more crap I learn
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15 said:
Kinda figured this , just annoys me , I could care less if she talks to me there if shes not interested . as far as i know her only friend is some hog , so Ill just completely ignore her from now on .

the only annoying part , is when ever i go there , shell usually end up n my line of sight , I dont wanna lock eyes with her but if i do should i hold it or just look away from her ? Don't feel like she deserves my eye contact , but i dont wanna look away immediately like a nervous chode
Just treat her as an old school mate from high school you see once in a while cause you live close, there's not so much to think about it.
 
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