"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I start drinking green tea today, thus far about 4 cups. I made 8 cups worth in the morning, put 5 bags into it. Am I suppose to be hyper after drinking it? Its kind of like coffee, makes me tense on the sides of my head. Pupils dialated, so Im attractive, especially to the cops, lol.


Im using Lipton Green Tea 100% natural, naturally decaffeinated, 0 calories, drinking without sugar.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol? WTF? Tell me before I start smoking this sh1t.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm trying this stuff... and the one I'm drinking right now tastes so bad...

anyone have any suggestions on how to make it taste better.. or good any good brands?
 

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don't drink decaf tea. The decaffeinating process uses several chemicals. It's a misconception that decaf is healthier, whether it be coffee or tea.
 

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Im drinking lipton green tea, and I tell you, without sugar or anything it tastes good. Not alright, but good. The only thing is that it makes you crazy, tense. But I guess that what it should be doing?
 

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LOL, since it's decaf, there should be nowt in there to make your hyper :up:

You sure this ain't a placebo effect, or you're smoking gear? :crackup:

-shaun
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I prefer the capsules. You avoid the nasty taste entirely :)
 

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I have been drinking green tea since 2000 and it gives me a calming effect and not once have I been wired or tense with drinking it.

Lipton's with mixed Berry and cranberry/pomerand are the 2 I drink and I only add a tad of sugar or honey and I let it brew for 5 minutes for a stronger strength.

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I hate hot drinks. If you do too or just don't like green tea, do this:

Open the green tea bag and dump it into cold water. Gulp down the cold water.


BTW, I heard white tea is even healthier.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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WBA was talking about brewing 8-10 bags a day, cooling it over night, and drink the next day....anyone care to explain this process?? do u like get a jug? do u open the tea bags or no? do u boil the water first..?
 

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I pour 8 cups of filtered water into coffee jug (where you make coffee). Then pour that into kettle and bring to boil. Meanwhile I stick 5 bags of green tea into the coffee jug, and then pour boiled water over it. Then cover the coffee jug with something so steam dont escape.

I drink it the same day, I dont like ice tea.


Should I be putting 8 bags instead?
 
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What are the benefits, if any, of brewing and drinking actual tea over using an EGCG green tea extract supplement like Primaforce Lean Green or NOW's EGCG? 2-3 caps and you have your 500mg EGCG for the day, and the products are cheap. I can understand if one prefers to drink the tea to enjoy it for it's own sake or to add taste to your daily water intake, otherwise is there any reason to do so? Serious question, not a backhanded statement.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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