"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Great SS approach!

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So I didn't try this yet because I don't know enough about Speed Seduction and I just thought of it last night.

So basically you go with a pad and a pen. Stop a women and ask if she would like to be interviewed for a psycology experiment. Then she'd probably say yes because women are usually very helpful.

Then ask her "What is Love?"
The question is very open. Most likely she would started talking and talking and talking.... This is where you use the SS. (I don't know enough about it but I know the principles of SS) You say something like have you ever had that feeling...(or however SS is used) then she already associated all those "love" feelings and the SS material with you and your GOLDEN.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Next time try the George McFly Backshot

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
Next time try the George McFly Backshot

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
I've been trying it for 3 days and have 20 women lining up after me. Unfortunately I can't leave the house because all my friends want to beat me up! :)

Seriously though, drop all the try-hard gimmicks. A simple hi or trivial comment is as good an opener as any you will ever find.
 

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What is the George McFly Backshot?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by arutha
What is the George McFly Backshot?
You don't know about the George McFly Backshot?? :rolleyes: ...and you've been here how long?
 

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Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
 

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Originally posted by arutha
Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
Amusing. Yeah. If you ride the short bus to school in the morning.
 

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Actually this is an interesting opinion opener.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
I bet she read this post...hehe
 
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