"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Great SS approach!

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So I didn't try this yet because I don't know enough about Speed Seduction and I just thought of it last night.

So basically you go with a pad and a pen. Stop a women and ask if she would like to be interviewed for a psycology experiment. Then she'd probably say yes because women are usually very helpful.

Then ask her "What is Love?"
The question is very open. Most likely she would started talking and talking and talking.... This is where you use the SS. (I don't know enough about it but I know the principles of SS) You say something like have you ever had that feeling...(or however SS is used) then she already associated all those "love" feelings and the SS material with you and your GOLDEN.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Next time try the George McFly Backshot

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
Next time try the George McFly Backshot

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
I've been trying it for 3 days and have 20 women lining up after me. Unfortunately I can't leave the house because all my friends want to beat me up! :)

Seriously though, drop all the try-hard gimmicks. A simple hi or trivial comment is as good an opener as any you will ever find.
 

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What is the George McFly Backshot?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by arutha
What is the George McFly Backshot?
You don't know about the George McFly Backshot?? :rolleyes: ...and you've been here how long?
 

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Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
 

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Originally posted by arutha
Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
Amusing. Yeah. If you ride the short bus to school in the morning.
 

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Actually this is an interesting opinion opener.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
I bet she read this post...hehe
 
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