"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great SS approach!

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So I didn't try this yet because I don't know enough about Speed Seduction and I just thought of it last night.

So basically you go with a pad and a pen. Stop a women and ask if she would like to be interviewed for a psycology experiment. Then she'd probably say yes because women are usually very helpful.

Then ask her "What is Love?"
The question is very open. Most likely she would started talking and talking and talking.... This is where you use the SS. (I don't know enough about it but I know the principles of SS) You say something like have you ever had that feeling...(or however SS is used) then she already associated all those "love" feelings and the SS material with you and your GOLDEN.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Next time try the George McFly Backshot

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Originally posted by thefonz
Next time try the George McFly Backshot

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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I've been trying it for 3 days and have 20 women lining up after me. Unfortunately I can't leave the house because all my friends want to beat me up! :)

Seriously though, drop all the try-hard gimmicks. A simple hi or trivial comment is as good an opener as any you will ever find.
 
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What is the George McFly Backshot?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by arutha
What is the George McFly Backshot?
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You don't know about the George McFly Backshot?? :rolleyes: ...and you've been here how long?
 
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Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
 
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Originally posted by arutha
Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
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Amusing. Yeah. If you ride the short bus to school in the morning.
 
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Actually this is an interesting opinion opener.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
 
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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
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I bet she read this post...hehe
 
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