"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I didn't try this yet because I don't know enough about Speed Seduction and I just thought of it last night.

So basically you go with a pad and a pen. Stop a women and ask if she would like to be interviewed for a psycology experiment. Then she'd probably say yes because women are usually very helpful.

Then ask her "What is Love?"
The question is very open. Most likely she would started talking and talking and talking.... This is where you use the SS. (I don't know enough about it but I know the principles of SS) You say something like have you ever had that feeling...(or however SS is used) then she already associated all those "love" feelings and the SS material with you and your GOLDEN.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Next time try the George McFly Backshot

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Originally posted by thefonz
Next time try the George McFly Backshot

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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I've been trying it for 3 days and have 20 women lining up after me. Unfortunately I can't leave the house because all my friends want to beat me up! :)

Seriously though, drop all the try-hard gimmicks. A simple hi or trivial comment is as good an opener as any you will ever find.
 
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What is the George McFly Backshot?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by arutha
What is the George McFly Backshot?
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You don't know about the George McFly Backshot?? :rolleyes: ...and you've been here how long?
 
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Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
 
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Originally posted by arutha
Well the thread that explained it is locked, I did find it though. Pretty amusing.
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Amusing. Yeah. If you ride the short bus to school in the morning.
 
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Actually this is an interesting opinion opener.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
 
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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Dude, some girl tried that on me on my way to class. She was all "Hi, I'm a doing a survey for such and such class, would you mind if I asked you a few questions." I'm sure she was just trying to pick me up though, after reading this tip.
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I bet she read this post...hehe
 
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