"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Great movie that has a lot to do with game and theory I'm watching...

marmel75

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Its called "Alfie" starring Jude Law as a womanizing chauffer in New York City...it literally could have been written by the SoSuave community...

Talks about how to manage multiple women, about not getting involved with single Mom's because they come with "accessories", about the institution of marriage, about complimenting women and how and how not to do it, etc...

Basically it shows him hopping from women to women as as the scenes unfold, he basically explains what's going on and how he/you should handle it---kinda like the other person isn't there and they can' hear him, but they are still there but unreactive to it.

very person on this board would do well to watch this...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice movie. They should make more movies likes these for men not just chick flicks for women.

Towards the end when he talks about not having peace of mind being single. Well being married isn't synonymous with having POM.
We could give him a pass though, the back to back break up might have made him a bit AFC for the moment.

He talked about location, location, location! Same thing I've been preaching.
 

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First half was pure dj material. Loved it. First time i was seeing a movie without the AFC mentality fully involved.
In the second half , he had some very good questions that i believe many of us is asking on to himself. Good movie.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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