"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Great movie that has a lot to do with game and theory I'm watching...

marmel75

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Its called "Alfie" starring Jude Law as a womanizing chauffer in New York City...it literally could have been written by the SoSuave community...

Talks about how to manage multiple women, about not getting involved with single Mom's because they come with "accessories", about the institution of marriage, about complimenting women and how and how not to do it, etc...

Basically it shows him hopping from women to women as as the scenes unfold, he basically explains what's going on and how he/you should handle it---kinda like the other person isn't there and they can' hear him, but they are still there but unreactive to it.

very person on this board would do well to watch this...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice movie. They should make more movies likes these for men not just chick flicks for women.

Towards the end when he talks about not having peace of mind being single. Well being married isn't synonymous with having POM.
We could give him a pass though, the back to back break up might have made him a bit AFC for the moment.

He talked about location, location, location! Same thing I've been preaching.
 

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First half was pure dj material. Loved it. First time i was seeing a movie without the AFC mentality fully involved.
In the second half , he had some very good questions that i believe many of us is asking on to himself. Good movie.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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