"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Great movie that has a lot to do with game and theory I'm watching...

marmel75

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Its called "Alfie" starring Jude Law as a womanizing chauffer in New York City...it literally could have been written by the SoSuave community...

Talks about how to manage multiple women, about not getting involved with single Mom's because they come with "accessories", about the institution of marriage, about complimenting women and how and how not to do it, etc...

Basically it shows him hopping from women to women as as the scenes unfold, he basically explains what's going on and how he/you should handle it---kinda like the other person isn't there and they can' hear him, but they are still there but unreactive to it.

very person on this board would do well to watch this...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice movie. They should make more movies likes these for men not just chick flicks for women.

Towards the end when he talks about not having peace of mind being single. Well being married isn't synonymous with having POM.
We could give him a pass though, the back to back break up might have made him a bit AFC for the moment.

He talked about location, location, location! Same thing I've been preaching.
 
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First half was pure dj material. Loved it. First time i was seeing a movie without the AFC mentality fully involved.
In the second half , he had some very good questions that i believe many of us is asking on to himself. Good movie.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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