Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Grabbing girls asses

cola

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When do you know its ok? At work its a couple chicks whose asses I would love to grab ..
Just regular chicks I flirt with.. Its risky tho..
so I guess my question is how do you open the door to fondling chicks?

Also is it a general rule if a chick at work grabs your butt or d¤ck its fair game now to squeexe her goods?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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foreverAFC

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if they are touching you like that i say go for it.
 

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Rapport opens the escalation door.

Being savvy with female subcommunication and non verbal cues will give you the indications to engage as well.
 
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don't get a sexual harrasment charge.

recently met up w/ a girl who wanted to hang out. i thought i was in, i went for an ass grab and to this day the girl doesn't wanna see my face again. she said i wasn't respectful to her etc.,

don't do it unless maybe you are making out, then you can put your hands wherever u want
 

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Trick her into touching your butt first, then it's a fair game. I would go for the boobs in a completely non-sleazy way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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moneyisking

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ONLY if they touched your ass first, at work, club, school, anywhere.
 

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If a chick grabs your goods you have got a right to grab her goods too, I'd say.

You got to get a chick comfortable with you touching them generally then you can touch the ass to make the IOI clear.
 

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Do you want to lose your job?
 

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as a fellow ass man, I know the temptation rises when you see a perfect bubble butt... I grab lots of asses and NEVER get a bad reaction...here is how:

so I'll chat a girl up, usually at laid back venue and immediately my hand goes for her lower back...I pull her in and starting talking sexually in her ear...I do some calibration and if things are going smoothly, I let my hand slide down to her butt

another thing I do is if I talked to a girl for awhile and we hit it off, but I want to roll off...I give the girl a light spank goodbye

I cannot tell you how many times after grabbing a girls ass they grind on me harder and physically put my hands on both ass cheeks...they LOVE that sh!t

that being said, don't touch your coworkers...even if they are into it...you might get a promotion down the line and one of the girls gets jealous...boom now there are rumours flying around that you are a pervert...goodbye promotion goodbye career...F that
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who Dares Win

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The workplace is offlimits, simply not worth it no matter the base.

Im a guy whos very aggressive at the club where I squeeze boobs and asses but at work or with women you have connection (you cannot leave with no conseguences) I simply keep everything neutral.
 
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