"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grabbing girls asses

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When do you know its ok? At work its a couple chicks whose asses I would love to grab ..
Just regular chicks I flirt with.. Its risky tho..
so I guess my question is how do you open the door to fondling chicks?

Also is it a general rule if a chick at work grabs your butt or d¤ck its fair game now to squeexe her goods?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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foreverAFC

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if they are touching you like that i say go for it.
 

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Rapport opens the escalation door.

Being savvy with female subcommunication and non verbal cues will give you the indications to engage as well.
 
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don't get a sexual harrasment charge.

recently met up w/ a girl who wanted to hang out. i thought i was in, i went for an ass grab and to this day the girl doesn't wanna see my face again. she said i wasn't respectful to her etc.,

don't do it unless maybe you are making out, then you can put your hands wherever u want
 

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Trick her into touching your butt first, then it's a fair game. I would go for the boobs in a completely non-sleazy way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ONLY if they touched your ass first, at work, club, school, anywhere.
 

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If a chick grabs your goods you have got a right to grab her goods too, I'd say.

You got to get a chick comfortable with you touching them generally then you can touch the ass to make the IOI clear.
 

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Do you want to lose your job?
 

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as a fellow ass man, I know the temptation rises when you see a perfect bubble butt... I grab lots of asses and NEVER get a bad reaction...here is how:

so I'll chat a girl up, usually at laid back venue and immediately my hand goes for her lower back...I pull her in and starting talking sexually in her ear...I do some calibration and if things are going smoothly, I let my hand slide down to her butt

another thing I do is if I talked to a girl for awhile and we hit it off, but I want to roll off...I give the girl a light spank goodbye

I cannot tell you how many times after grabbing a girls ass they grind on me harder and physically put my hands on both ass cheeks...they LOVE that sh!t

that being said, don't touch your coworkers...even if they are into it...you might get a promotion down the line and one of the girls gets jealous...boom now there are rumours flying around that you are a pervert...goodbye promotion goodbye career...F that
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who Dares Win

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The workplace is offlimits, simply not worth it no matter the base.

Im a guy whos very aggressive at the club where I squeeze boobs and asses but at work or with women you have connection (you cannot leave with no conseguences) I simply keep everything neutral.
 
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