regular_guy
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Yeah bringing another date was an insult to her. I am not surprised of her reaction.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Got thrown a curveball by a hot women. What happened?
- Thread starter masterintraining
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
masterintraining
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Thanks real I think that you very insightful. The women who are on this thread are just proving to me that what I did was the exact thing i should i have done. I am amazed how most women are no clue how this game is played.
My Name is Nobody
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Just call her like nothing happened. Don't even mention it see what happens.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
LovelyLady
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I would never date a man who disrespected me this way.
You want to see other people as there is no commitment, that is fine. But if you accepted an invitation to my special day/performance and brought another woman? Sheesh. I would see you first as a jerk and feel angry and appalled (that is the ignoring part of her behavior)...
then move on past the shock at having so misjudged you to seeing you as a total Loser (that is the part where I would be socially polite and say hello to you at the event - at that point you are already history and that is as close to closure as we'll ever get. I would behave that way to maintain my own dignity - you would already be removed from the equation).
If she still dates you she has low self-esteem, IMO.
You want to see other people as there is no commitment, that is fine. But if you accepted an invitation to my special day/performance and brought another woman? Sheesh. I would see you first as a jerk and feel angry and appalled (that is the ignoring part of her behavior)...
then move on past the shock at having so misjudged you to seeing you as a total Loser (that is the part where I would be socially polite and say hello to you at the event - at that point you are already history and that is as close to closure as we'll ever get. I would behave that way to maintain my own dignity - you would already be removed from the equation).
If she still dates you she has low self-esteem, IMO.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I'm with the "it was a stupid idea" crowd here. As iqqi mentioned, how would you feel if you did something and invited her to come and watch and the girl brought a guy with her? Unless she explains that it's her brother, I would be offended.
Did it cross your mind that maybe she would like to hook up with you after she did her performance? But you completely blew that chance when you brought another woman.
You can probably still recover but what you did was a mistake.
Did it cross your mind that maybe she would like to hook up with you after she did her performance? But you completely blew that chance when you brought another woman.
You can probably still recover but what you did was a mistake.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lol iqqi is right to some extent you shouldnt have brought a date, it would of shown more confidence if you had gone on your own, by bringing a girl the girl who you were trying to game will of presumed you had noo interest in her AT ALL and thats why she ignored you
lol yeah every woman will give advice on how to be their ideal man, and every womans ideal man is different,My Name is Nobody said:Just call her like nothing happened. Don't even mention it see what happens.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
Well isn't it telling how the hens and the guys that agreed with them (I won't call them AFCs) are all in agreement that this girl should be indignant for him "bringing a girl to a function blah blah blah." Yet they totally ignore the fact she invited him and then sang a song about never wanting to get with short guys? What she was doing was a big insult and an IOD if I ever saw one.
Women give stupid advice that's female-biased.
Women give stupid advice that's female-biased.