regular_guy
Don Juan
Yeah bringing another date was an insult to her. I am not surprised of her reaction.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Got thrown a curveball by a hot women. What happened?
- Thread starter masterintraining
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
masterintraining
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Thanks real I think that you very insightful. The women who are on this thread are just proving to me that what I did was the exact thing i should i have done. I am amazed how most women are no clue how this game is played.
My Name is Nobody
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Just call her like nothing happened. Don't even mention it see what happens.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
LovelyLady
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I would never date a man who disrespected me this way.
You want to see other people as there is no commitment, that is fine. But if you accepted an invitation to my special day/performance and brought another woman? Sheesh. I would see you first as a jerk and feel angry and appalled (that is the ignoring part of her behavior)...
then move on past the shock at having so misjudged you to seeing you as a total Loser (that is the part where I would be socially polite and say hello to you at the event - at that point you are already history and that is as close to closure as we'll ever get. I would behave that way to maintain my own dignity - you would already be removed from the equation).
If she still dates you she has low self-esteem, IMO.
You want to see other people as there is no commitment, that is fine. But if you accepted an invitation to my special day/performance and brought another woman? Sheesh. I would see you first as a jerk and feel angry and appalled (that is the ignoring part of her behavior)...
then move on past the shock at having so misjudged you to seeing you as a total Loser (that is the part where I would be socially polite and say hello to you at the event - at that point you are already history and that is as close to closure as we'll ever get. I would behave that way to maintain my own dignity - you would already be removed from the equation).
If she still dates you she has low self-esteem, IMO.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
I'm with the "it was a stupid idea" crowd here. As iqqi mentioned, how would you feel if you did something and invited her to come and watch and the girl brought a guy with her? Unless she explains that it's her brother, I would be offended.
Did it cross your mind that maybe she would like to hook up with you after she did her performance? But you completely blew that chance when you brought another woman.
You can probably still recover but what you did was a mistake.
Did it cross your mind that maybe she would like to hook up with you after she did her performance? But you completely blew that chance when you brought another woman.
You can probably still recover but what you did was a mistake.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol iqqi is right to some extent you shouldnt have brought a date, it would of shown more confidence if you had gone on your own, by bringing a girl the girl who you were trying to game will of presumed you had noo interest in her AT ALL and thats why she ignored you
lol yeah every woman will give advice on how to be their ideal man, and every womans ideal man is different,My Name is Nobody said:Just call her like nothing happened. Don't even mention it see what happens.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
Well isn't it telling how the hens and the guys that agreed with them (I won't call them AFCs) are all in agreement that this girl should be indignant for him "bringing a girl to a function blah blah blah." Yet they totally ignore the fact she invited him and then sang a song about never wanting to get with short guys? What she was doing was a big insult and an IOD if I ever saw one.
Women give stupid advice that's female-biased.
Women give stupid advice that's female-biased.