regular_guy
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Yeah bringing another date was an insult to her. I am not surprised of her reaction.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Got thrown a curveball by a hot women. What happened?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
masterintraining
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Thanks real I think that you very insightful. The women who are on this thread are just proving to me that what I did was the exact thing i should i have done. I am amazed how most women are no clue how this game is played.
My Name is Nobody
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Just call her like nothing happened. Don't even mention it see what happens.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
LovelyLady
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I would never date a man who disrespected me this way.
You want to see other people as there is no commitment, that is fine. But if you accepted an invitation to my special day/performance and brought another woman? Sheesh. I would see you first as a jerk and feel angry and appalled (that is the ignoring part of her behavior)...
then move on past the shock at having so misjudged you to seeing you as a total Loser (that is the part where I would be socially polite and say hello to you at the event - at that point you are already history and that is as close to closure as we'll ever get. I would behave that way to maintain my own dignity - you would already be removed from the equation).
If she still dates you she has low self-esteem, IMO.
You want to see other people as there is no commitment, that is fine. But if you accepted an invitation to my special day/performance and brought another woman? Sheesh. I would see you first as a jerk and feel angry and appalled (that is the ignoring part of her behavior)...
then move on past the shock at having so misjudged you to seeing you as a total Loser (that is the part where I would be socially polite and say hello to you at the event - at that point you are already history and that is as close to closure as we'll ever get. I would behave that way to maintain my own dignity - you would already be removed from the equation).
If she still dates you she has low self-esteem, IMO.
Maxtro
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I'm with the "it was a stupid idea" crowd here. As iqqi mentioned, how would you feel if you did something and invited her to come and watch and the girl brought a guy with her? Unless she explains that it's her brother, I would be offended.
Did it cross your mind that maybe she would like to hook up with you after she did her performance? But you completely blew that chance when you brought another woman.
You can probably still recover but what you did was a mistake.
Did it cross your mind that maybe she would like to hook up with you after she did her performance? But you completely blew that chance when you brought another woman.
You can probably still recover but what you did was a mistake.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol iqqi is right to some extent you shouldnt have brought a date, it would of shown more confidence if you had gone on your own, by bringing a girl the girl who you were trying to game will of presumed you had noo interest in her AT ALL and thats why she ignored you
lol yeah every woman will give advice on how to be their ideal man, and every womans ideal man is different,My Name is Nobody said:Just call her like nothing happened. Don't even mention it see what happens.
Why are women posting on this site anyway? Ban them as they have no business here and give crappy advice.
Well isn't it telling how the hens and the guys that agreed with them (I won't call them AFCs) are all in agreement that this girl should be indignant for him "bringing a girl to a function blah blah blah." Yet they totally ignore the fact she invited him and then sang a song about never wanting to get with short guys? What she was doing was a big insult and an IOD if I ever saw one.
Women give stupid advice that's female-biased.
Women give stupid advice that's female-biased.