"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Got the girl . guys hate me

KangJiYoung

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HiYa. I follow this forum for some time and also I'm in the pick-up scene for 1 year.I was a total AFC but now I got pretty good.Well the little story is this : I got a girlfriend in HighSchool ( It's my second one ) and one guy from my class liked her too. When he found out that I'm with her He made almost all the guys to hate me and to make fun of me and this destroyed all the social status that I had in the class. Yeah He's much cooler than me and I don't know what to do and I feel very akward even going to the class. What you guys would do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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Why does he even have this sort of power over you? A part of being 'pretty good' is to be able to believe in yourself and know your own values and boundaries.

Just spread really good vibes and be really friendly to everyone from an equal-value standpoint, and everything will be fine really. If you give them reasons to love you and approve you, they will do so naturally. Just make it sincere and dont suck up at any time.
 

Jack Wealthy

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^ Yeah that. You're equal, you're as cool as he is so just be nice to him. Don't resent, don't hate, because that will make him better than you.

If worse comes to worse call him out on it and engage him in fisticuffs.
 

Amo

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10 bucks says the chick isn't even that hot.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KangJiYoung

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Tx guys for all the responses. I started to take actions of not being a ***** and keep my cool and things started a little bit to change.
 
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