"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KangJiYoung

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HiYa. I follow this forum for some time and also I'm in the pick-up scene for 1 year.I was a total AFC but now I got pretty good.Well the little story is this : I got a girlfriend in HighSchool ( It's my second one ) and one guy from my class liked her too. When he found out that I'm with her He made almost all the guys to hate me and to make fun of me and this destroyed all the social status that I had in the class. Yeah He's much cooler than me and I don't know what to do and I feel very akward even going to the class. What you guys would do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NorwegianDJ

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Why does he even have this sort of power over you? A part of being 'pretty good' is to be able to believe in yourself and know your own values and boundaries.

Just spread really good vibes and be really friendly to everyone from an equal-value standpoint, and everything will be fine really. If you give them reasons to love you and approve you, they will do so naturally. Just make it sincere and dont suck up at any time.
 

Jack Wealthy

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^ Yeah that. You're equal, you're as cool as he is so just be nice to him. Don't resent, don't hate, because that will make him better than you.

If worse comes to worse call him out on it and engage him in fisticuffs.
 

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10 bucks says the chick isn't even that hot.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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KangJiYoung

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Tx guys for all the responses. I started to take actions of not being a ***** and keep my cool and things started a little bit to change.
 
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