"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HiYa. I follow this forum for some time and also I'm in the pick-up scene for 1 year.I was a total AFC but now I got pretty good.Well the little story is this : I got a girlfriend in HighSchool ( It's my second one ) and one guy from my class liked her too. When he found out that I'm with her He made almost all the guys to hate me and to make fun of me and this destroyed all the social status that I had in the class. Yeah He's much cooler than me and I don't know what to do and I feel very akward even going to the class. What you guys would do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why does he even have this sort of power over you? A part of being 'pretty good' is to be able to believe in yourself and know your own values and boundaries.

Just spread really good vibes and be really friendly to everyone from an equal-value standpoint, and everything will be fine really. If you give them reasons to love you and approve you, they will do so naturally. Just make it sincere and dont suck up at any time.
 
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^ Yeah that. You're equal, you're as cool as he is so just be nice to him. Don't resent, don't hate, because that will make him better than you.

If worse comes to worse call him out on it and engage him in fisticuffs.
 
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10 bucks says the chick isn't even that hot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tx guys for all the responses. I started to take actions of not being a ***** and keep my cool and things started a little bit to change.
 
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