"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got the girl . guys hate me

KangJiYoung

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HiYa. I follow this forum for some time and also I'm in the pick-up scene for 1 year.I was a total AFC but now I got pretty good.Well the little story is this : I got a girlfriend in HighSchool ( It's my second one ) and one guy from my class liked her too. When he found out that I'm with her He made almost all the guys to hate me and to make fun of me and this destroyed all the social status that I had in the class. Yeah He's much cooler than me and I don't know what to do and I feel very akward even going to the class. What you guys would do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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Why does he even have this sort of power over you? A part of being 'pretty good' is to be able to believe in yourself and know your own values and boundaries.

Just spread really good vibes and be really friendly to everyone from an equal-value standpoint, and everything will be fine really. If you give them reasons to love you and approve you, they will do so naturally. Just make it sincere and dont suck up at any time.
 

Jack Wealthy

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^ Yeah that. You're equal, you're as cool as he is so just be nice to him. Don't resent, don't hate, because that will make him better than you.

If worse comes to worse call him out on it and engage him in fisticuffs.
 

Amo

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10 bucks says the chick isn't even that hot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KangJiYoung

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Tx guys for all the responses. I started to take actions of not being a ***** and keep my cool and things started a little bit to change.
 
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