TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Negative! ...how much does that rock?! 
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Got Results Back From Hiv/aids Test!!!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
thats awesome.
that must of been stressful worrying about that
that must of been stressful worrying about that
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
You know, I decided to go for the test so I called last Friday, and they said that they didn't do blood work on Saturday, so all day Friday I was like "...damn." Cuz I wanted to really know, and my life is full of ironies.
Yesterday was very stressful!
I'm going to have my lab results framed. hehe!
Yesterday was very stressful!
I'm going to have my lab results framed. hehe!
MacAvoy
Banned
i could have told you they would have come back negative.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
MacAvoy said:
lol! ..the man with all the answers!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Its important for academic purposes to realize HIV can be transmitted heterosexually. In practice, it makes about as much sense to worry about getting HIV this way as it does to fear crashing during an airline flight.Latinoman said:
HIV is probably one reason anal sex isn't a great idea. With a condom its probably relatively safe, but that takes a lot of the fun away.
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If i can change the subject slightly, my suggestion for developing DJs is to study the harmful effects of worrying excessively. I recommend the book by Dale Carnegie which addresses worrying needlessly. Worry less, live more.
No, not correct. Several studies put the risk for a man to contract HIV from an infected woman at 1:700 to 1:1000 when doing her without protection. But the possibility of an infection rises about 25-30 times if the infection of the carrier is fresh. So in this case the risk would be about 1:25 - 1:30.azanon said:
Both is WAY higher than the risk of dying in an airplane crash. Protected sex of course minimizes the risk, but it is still there. A broken condom, a fresh infection in your partner, and off you go.. Yes, the dangers of catching a HIV infection have been hyped massively for educational purposes. But don´t commit the mistake of going the other extreme and disregard the danger of infection. Which is not very likely, but nevertheless real.
Lets move from estimates to real numbers. I covered this in another recent similar thread.Rudra said:
(Sources, Census Bureau and CDC):
300 Million People in the US.
~1 Million have HIV/Aids. 15% of those caught it through heterosexual sex (so we're down to 150,000)
Thus, 0.05% of the population have HIV/Aids obtained through heterosexual sex. Or said another way, 1 in 2000 people have HIV/Aids caught this way.
Sure, that's more likely than a plane crash, but if you think I'm going to worry about it with these kinds of numbers, you are wrong. Chances are, the bulk of these people have a multitude of sexual partners that they're all having unprotected sex with, including anal. Its just way too likely that I'll be worrying needlessly, and there is plenty of documented proof that worry can be lethal, if not at least diminish your quality of life.
Worry (in its many forms) definitely kills more than 1 in 2000 people.
Let´s put it that way - you should definitely worry when you´re into promiscuous unprotected sex.azanon said:
When you´re into practising heterosexual safer sex, and do it properly, worrying about HIV is futile.
Agreed?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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If an otherwise clean man (i.e., no VD, not a drug addict, etc.) is having unprptected vaginal sex with a non-low class woman, his chances of catching the disease are extraordinarily low - as some have said, on the order of having your airplane ride crash. First, she must be a carrier, and then even if she is a carrier, the transmittal must be done.
The chances of such a non-low class woman having the disease is very low. You could tell if a woman is a druggie, or a street hore. Yes, a higher class woman may be an escort, but the chance of that is low, and she would be the high class kind who would only have high class clients, and would require them to use condoms in any case. Yes, a woman could have had a bi-sexual lover in her past, but in most cases, such a woman would be a bit strange. When it comes to ONS, you should just use a condom.
The chances of such a non-low class woman having the disease is very low. You could tell if a woman is a druggie, or a street hore. Yes, a higher class woman may be an escort, but the chance of that is low, and she would be the high class kind who would only have high class clients, and would require them to use condoms in any case. Yes, a woman could have had a bi-sexual lover in her past, but in most cases, such a woman would be a bit strange. When it comes to ONS, you should just use a condom.
That one should worry? absolutely. But not because of AIDS. I'd worry about 1. pregnancy 2. common STD's like herpes. That's the logical reason to use a condom if you're having non-anal sex with a chick. Now sure, if you're doing anal sex with anyone, I'd add HIV/AIDS as a viable concern to that list.Rudra said:
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For clarity, i'm certainly not advocating not using condoms. I'm just saying lets at least grasp what condoms are primarily protecting us from; which would be pregnancy and common, permanent genital STDs. And yes, I know condoms don't provide complete protection from either of those, but they help.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm feeln hella good, if only slightly hungover. Partied up last night with some very good friends.
When ppl say your life changes after you had a kid, they weren't bullsh*tting.
You drive with your seatbelt on, you do the speed limit, you eat right, you exercise, you cut down on the late night partying, etc... and when you did as much fvcking as I did last summer, you just want to be sure you are ok, and that you will be around for your son.
I don't expect everyone to understand this, and some of you rookies (and you know who you are. ) might question it, and that's fine too, I'm not mad at ya. /points and laughs!! LOL! Just get yourself educated.
I just want to be around for my son for as long as possible, God willing.
Whew! ...I feel hella good.
Partied up last night with some very good friends. When ppl say your life changes after you had a kid, they weren't bullsh*tting.
You drive with your seatbelt on, you do the speed limit, you eat right, you exercise, you cut down on the late night partying, etc... and when you did as much fvcking as I did last summer, you just want to be sure you are ok, and that you will be around for your son.
I don't expect everyone to understand this, and some of you rookies (and you know who you are.
) might question it, and that's fine too, I'm not mad at ya. /points and laughs!! LOL! Just get yourself educated. I just want to be around for my son for as long as possible, God willing.
Whew! ...I feel hella good.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.