TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Negative! ...how much does that rock?! 
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
MacAvoy said:i could have told you they would have come back negative.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
azanon said:If you don't have symptoms that are hampering your life and you need to get to the bottom of them, what's the point? Its not like you can "catch it early" and cure it.
If you have a big cuck and she has a tight puzzy…blood will be shared. If you have anal sex too.AFC Savior said:straight men don't catch HIV from women
Without the test, you spread it legally. With the test, you commit a felony.Latinoman said:But you can spread it. And you can also contain it.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Its important for academic purposes to realize HIV can be transmitted heterosexually. In practice, it makes about as much sense to worry about getting HIV this way as it does to fear crashing during an airline flight.Latinoman said:If you have a big cuck and she has a tight puzzy…blood will be shared. If you have anal sex too.
Don’t kid yourself…you can get HIV from heterosexual sex.
No, not correct. Several studies put the risk for a man to contract HIV from an infected woman at 1:700 to 1:1000 when doing her without protection. But the possibility of an infection rises about 25-30 times if the infection of the carrier is fresh. So in this case the risk would be about 1:25 - 1:30.azanon said:Its important for academic purposes to realize HIV can be transmitted heterosexually. In practice, it makes about as much sense to worry about getting HIV this way as it does to fear crashing during an airline flight.
Lets move from estimates to real numbers. I covered this in another recent similar thread.Rudra said:No, not correct. Several studies put the risk for a man to contract HIV from an infected woman at 1:700 to 1:1000 when doing her without protection. But the possibility of an infection rises about 25-30 times if the infection of the carrier is fresh. So in this case the risk would be about 1:25 - 1:30.
Let´s put it that way - you should definitely worry when you´re into promiscuous unprotected sex.azanon said:Worry (in its many forms) definitely kills more than 1 in 2000 people.
TheLadiesMan said:Negative! ...how much does that rock?!![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That one should worry? absolutely. But not because of AIDS. I'd worry about 1. pregnancy 2. common STD's like herpes. That's the logical reason to use a condom if you're having non-anal sex with a chick. Now sure, if you're doing anal sex with anyone, I'd add HIV/AIDS as a viable concern to that list.Rudra said:Let´s put it that way - you should definitely worry when you´re into promiscuous unprotected sex.
When you´re into practising heterosexual safer sex, and do it properly, worrying about HIV is futile.
Agreed?
A DJ and for that matter a REAL Man would do the right thing. Spreading a virus to innocent people, including love ones is irresponsible.azanon said:Without the test, you spread it legally. With the test, you commit a felony.
To my knowledge, you cannot "contain" HIV/Aids. You can slow it.
azanon said:Its important for academic purposes to realize HIV can be transmitted heterosexually. In practice, it makes about as much sense to worry about getting HIV this way as it does to fear crashing during an airline flight.
HIV is probably one reason anal sex isn't a great idea. With a condom its probably relatively safe, but that takes a lot of the fun away.
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If i can change the subject slightly, my suggestion for developing DJs is to study the harmful effects of worrying excessively. I recommend the book by Dale Carnegie which addresses worrying needlessly. Worry less, live more.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.