"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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theNEWDJ

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I got a number from this girl i met at the mall but i only talked to her for about 50 seconds, so what do i say if i call her i hardly know here its like what now?

also if a girl says "you look familiar" or "you look like someone i know" is this a cue that they are interested?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PiHiPlaya

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Hmm, well I'm calling this girl who's number I got a few days ago later this afternoon. I'll give you a transcript of what I said.

Plus if I make any mistakes i'll point those out.
 

theNEWDJ

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thanks i guess haha
 

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I got a number from this girl i met at the mall but i only talked to her for about 50 seconds, so what do i say if i call her i hardly know here its like what now?

also if a girl says "you look familiar" or "you look like someone i know" is this a cue that they are interested?
For your 1st scenario. Call up, and tell her exactly what you told us about chatting at her from the mall and that you wanna do something later with her.

For your 2nd scenario, Yeah this is a que of interest in my experience dependin on how they "recognize" you. I usually do that to people I'm interested in getting to know haha it gives me a kick.
 
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