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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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got number?

theNEWDJ

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I got a number from this girl i met at the mall but i only talked to her for about 50 seconds, so what do i say if i call her i hardly know here its like what now?

also if a girl says "you look familiar" or "you look like someone i know" is this a cue that they are interested?
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hmm, well I'm calling this girl who's number I got a few days ago later this afternoon. I'll give you a transcript of what I said.

Plus if I make any mistakes i'll point those out.
 

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thanks i guess haha
 

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I got a number from this girl i met at the mall but i only talked to her for about 50 seconds, so what do i say if i call her i hardly know here its like what now?

also if a girl says "you look familiar" or "you look like someone i know" is this a cue that they are interested?
For your 1st scenario. Call up, and tell her exactly what you told us about chatting at her from the mall and that you wanna do something later with her.

For your 2nd scenario, Yeah this is a que of interest in my experience dependin on how they "recognize" you. I usually do that to people I'm interested in getting to know haha it gives me a kick.
 
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