"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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got number?

theNEWDJ

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I got a number from this girl i met at the mall but i only talked to her for about 50 seconds, so what do i say if i call her i hardly know here its like what now?

also if a girl says "you look familiar" or "you look like someone i know" is this a cue that they are interested?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hmm, well I'm calling this girl who's number I got a few days ago later this afternoon. I'll give you a transcript of what I said.

Plus if I make any mistakes i'll point those out.
 

theNEWDJ

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thanks i guess haha
 

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Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I got a number from this girl i met at the mall but i only talked to her for about 50 seconds, so what do i say if i call her i hardly know here its like what now?

also if a girl says "you look familiar" or "you look like someone i know" is this a cue that they are interested?
For your 1st scenario. Call up, and tell her exactly what you told us about chatting at her from the mall and that you wanna do something later with her.

For your 2nd scenario, Yeah this is a que of interest in my experience dependin on how they "recognize" you. I usually do that to people I'm interested in getting to know haha it gives me a kick.
 
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