SargeMaximus
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I don’t get it
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Got laid twice this past week
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Different pvssy have different affect on the mans mind. Some helps you, others hurt you. Some bring out a different side of you, others eat into sides of you.
SargeMaximus
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sounds like pedestalizing pvssy if I’m honest.
mrgoodstuff
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Not at all
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SargeMaximus
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How do you figure? You’re literally saying that certain pvssy helps you. Like some firefighter helping you out of a burning building, you’re not the alpha in that dynamic
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some pvssy energizes me, and other pvssy makes me feel a little more depressed or more negative. Who you hang around and talk to affects your mindset, and who you are inside or all up ontop of affects it more than that. Different pheremones strike you differently, different vibes from her affect you differently, it's different.
2Rocky
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I've had "streaks" like you mentioned. I think the confidence from a successful conquest makes you more direct confident and less hesitant. I recall a number of occasions while travelling to or from an LTR rendezvous, I had other women definitely interested.
Stopped at a grocery store on my way home from a weekend fling. Woman makes eye contact with me in line, we chat, walk out together, kisses me in the parking lot and gives me her number...
On a flight to go on a camping trip meet a woman as we are getting ready to board the flight. She comes up to ask if we can get together when we reach our destination. I had to break it to her that when we got there, I was meeting someone. She still insisted on giving me her number.
Running down off a mountain one morning I meet a woman I was friends with who was leaving the state to live with her "love of her life" later that week. She laid a lip lock on me as we were both standing there sweaty and breathing hard. Later that day another woman friend/client did the same thing. Man what a day!
As a friend says, never say WHOA in a horse race...Enjoy the streak and don't overthink it.
Stopped at a grocery store on my way home from a weekend fling. Woman makes eye contact with me in line, we chat, walk out together, kisses me in the parking lot and gives me her number...
On a flight to go on a camping trip meet a woman as we are getting ready to board the flight. She comes up to ask if we can get together when we reach our destination. I had to break it to her that when we got there, I was meeting someone. She still insisted on giving me her number.
Running down off a mountain one morning I meet a woman I was friends with who was leaving the state to live with her "love of her life" later that week. She laid a lip lock on me as we were both standing there sweaty and breathing hard. Later that day another woman friend/client did the same thing. Man what a day!
As a friend says, never say WHOA in a horse race...Enjoy the streak and don't overthink it.
SargeMaximus
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yeah but isnt an alpha supposed to be rock solid and unaffected by others?
2Rocky
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No man is an island....We are affected by people around us...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You might be alergic to dark liquor but have no issues with vodka.
SargeMaximus
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i see
KindredSpiritzz
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just enjoy it while it lasts, ebb and flow to everything in life and a dry spell will catch up with you eventually.
Just savor the moment and each success.
Just savor the moment and each success.