"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nice work man. Anybody of important status or just plates ??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SargeMaximus said:
How do you figure? You’re literally saying that certain pvssy helps you. Like some firefighter helping you out of a burning building, you’re not the alpha in that dynamic
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Some pvssy energizes me, and other pvssy makes me feel a little more depressed or more negative. Who you hang around and talk to affects your mindset, and who you are inside or all up ontop of affects it more than that. Different pheremones strike you differently, different vibes from her affect you differently, it's different.
 
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I've had "streaks" like you mentioned. I think the confidence from a successful conquest makes you more direct confident and less hesitant. I recall a number of occasions while travelling to or from an LTR rendezvous, I had other women definitely interested.

Stopped at a grocery store on my way home from a weekend fling. Woman makes eye contact with me in line, we chat, walk out together, kisses me in the parking lot and gives me her number...

On a flight to go on a camping trip meet a woman as we are getting ready to board the flight. She comes up to ask if we can get together when we reach our destination. I had to break it to her that when we got there, I was meeting someone. She still insisted on giving me her number.

Running down off a mountain one morning I meet a woman I was friends with who was leaving the state to live with her "love of her life" later that week. She laid a lip lock on me as we were both standing there sweaty and breathing hard. Later that day another woman friend/client did the same thing. Man what a day!

As a friend says, never say WHOA in a horse race...Enjoy the streak and don't overthink it.
 
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mrgoodstuff said:
Some pvssy energizes me, and other pvssy makes me feel a little more depressed or more negative. Who you hang around and talk to affects your mindset, and who you are inside or all up ontop of affects it more than that. Different pheremones strike you differently, different vibes from her affect you differently, it's different.
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yeah but isnt an alpha supposed to be rock solid and unaffected by others?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just enjoy it while it lasts, ebb and flow to everything in life and a dry spell will catch up with you eventually.
Just savor the moment and each success.
 
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